The world has a Father

Welcome to the last of six articles about God—our Father.

In previous articles, we’ve seen that the life of Jesus is all about what the Father wants him to do, and how much we need to know his Father as our Father.

And then, we saw that the apostles describe God—the Father, being the start and finish of all things—their fountainhead and finale. Wonderfully, Paul also shows us how our attention comes to be focused on the Father. The Holy Spirit evokes the cry of ‘Father’ within us. We know where we have come from and where we are going.

And now, the apostles, Paul in particular, show us that the Father, by actually being Father to us, creates the framework for our families, and churches, and for the future of our world.

Some years back, I read the story of a young fellow in trouble with the police. All the controls and therapies available to him were proving fruitless. But his own analysis of what he needed was simple. I’ve forgotten his exact words, but his meaning was, ‘All I want is a family to belong to.’

The life God has given us in this world is not about having a career, wealth, excitement or popularity. It’s about sharing our lives with others—giving ourselves to them, and being served by them.[i] Family life is given to us to practice living in this way.

But it takes more than a happy home to create this new community and a new world. It takes everything the Father does through his Son, and everything the Father continues to do through his Son and Spirit.

As we have seen, all this is deeply personal. But it’s not private. When God shows us that he is the Father, he is showing us how things are meant to work, and how they will work in the world to come.

This is not a system or an ideology that will be successful because we do things in a certain way. God’s family is created and functions because God actively gathers us to himself. We are adopted into his family, or made part of his household.[ii]

All this begins to happen the moment the church is born. Peter announces the gospel. Many confess that Jesus is the Christ and are forgiven. They receive the Holy Spirit. But then, look at what happens. These new believers begin behaving like a family—distributing property assets to ensure all are cared for.[iii]

Each believer needs to know that they belong to each other. Each member of the family has equal access to the Father and may approach him without fear.[iv] In the certainty of this, the need of each one becomes the concern of all.

This Jerusalem church soon encounters the reality of division. Cultural differences challenge the freedom of this movement. So, the church elects deacons to make sure everyone is treated as equal members of the one family.[v]

This issue continues to surface and Paul must show that the one-ness we have as children of God is greater than all our cultural differences.[vi] The Father’s care for each of his children teaches us to love and care for those our Father cares for—perhaps, not immediately, or easily, but surely.

Without God as Father and without the church as the community he is building, the world imagines they can find a meaning within themselves and in pursuing personal goals. But God has set his church in the midst of this world to be a working case-history of community. His community.

In his letter to the Ephesians, Paul celebrates what a great thing God has done in choosing us, drawing us to himself, to be holy and blameless before him. He is gathering a family from all nations. Paul marvels at this. And he worships the Father.[vii]

Then, he shows how the church grows. There is one Spirit—we are sharing one life. There is one Lord Jesus—we are dependent on one Saviour. And there is ‘…one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all.’[viii]

But notice how God goes about being Father. Out of the riches of who he is, he purposes to make us inwardly strong.[ix]

What does that look like? Well, God knows that, by nature, we are anxious for ourselves, protective, jealous and selfish. This is what guilt does to us. But, in his family, everything works by love.

When differences occur, as they do, we need to live in the truth of a Father who receives each of us and whose kindness and will must prevail. We need to know the love of Christ. We need to be filled with God’s fullness. And we will find that God our Father can do more that we imagine.

This love of the Father through our Lord Jesus is not so much something to be understood as to be received. If we live with one another in this way, our usual point scoring can be dropped and our egos can be shaped by the Spirit’s fruits. We will have become strong. We have become imitators of God, as beloved children.[x] This is what we are created for. And this will be the future of our world—shaped by other-person-preferring love—our affections all reflecting the broadness of our Father’s mercy.


[i] If eternal life is knowing God as our Father and knowing and Jesus as the Son (John 1:1-5; Col. 1:13-17), it follows that temporal life is all about knowing other people—really knowing them so as to see who they are and what they need.

[ii] Eph. 1:5; 2:19-22

[iii] Acts 2:38-47; 4:32-37

[iv] Eph. 2:18; 3:12

[v] Acts 6:1-7

[vi] Eph. 2:18-19

[vii] Eph. 3:8-14

[viii] Eph. 4:4-6

[ix] Eph. 3:14-21

[x] Eph. 5:1


[i] If eternal life is knowing God as our Father and knowing and Jesus as the Son (John 1:1-5; Col. 1:13-17) , if follows that temporal life is all about knowing other people—really knowing them so as to see who they are and what they need.

[ii] Eph. 1:5; 2:19-22

[iii] Acts 2:38-47; 4:32-37

[iv] Eph. 2:18; 3:12

[v] Acts 6:1-7

[vi] Eph. 2:18-19

[vii] Eph. 3:8-14

[viii] Eph. 4:4-6

[ix] Eph. 3:14-21

[x] Eph. 5:1

God’s welcome, and ours (Rom. 14:1—15:13)

Paul is concluding his account of the gospel he preaches, and does so in a very practical way.

His readers in Rome include numbers of Jewish believers, and, probably, a majority of Gentiles. Their different backgrounds have led them to different conclusions about the right way to express their new faith.

Jews are accustomed to reverencing God by not eating certain foods and keeping certain holy days. They know they are justified by faith in Christ but can’t put aside what they see as an obligation. The Gentile Christians have no such constraints and gratefully enjoy all foods and serve God without regard to a calendar.

If these two people groups share the same faith, should they not share the same practice? The problem is felt keenly. Jews are condemning Gentiles for their liberties. And Gentiles are despising Jews for their rules[i].

These differences are all the more difficult to resolve when the issues are not just cultural but have to do with what each one thinks is right or wrong. As we have noted, everyone wants to be right—or be seen to be right. It’s hard to get on well with people who challenge this.

The problem is felt wherever the gospel brings people of different backgrounds together—and hopefully, that will include every church!

So, Paul gives us ways to navigate this territory. But he is not content to give directions. He tells us his gospel again and shows how it both shapes and enables this new way of living with each other.

The world fosters an ethic, an education and a culture, and ways to keep people within their bounds. These things are necessary but they can’t create what they prescribe. Only God and his gospel can do that. Here’s how.

First, God has welcomed us all. So, welcome each another![ii]

It is no small thing to be welcomed by God. The Maker of the universe is our Father. We’re being blessed because we are in his beloved Son.[iii] The Father knows each of us and wants us to help each other.

The opposite of this—as we have seen—is being alienated and destined for wrath. But this same God has offered up his Son in our place, to reconcile us to himself. He’s not angry with us. [iv]  He’s welcomed us.

Given that this has taken place, our part is relatively simple. We should put away our anger with each another. We should welcome each another.

We can stop looking down on people who don’t have the same perspective as ourselves. And if God doesn’t see anything to condemn, there’s nothing to correct. If it’s only a matter of opinion, our opinion isn’t final!

Obviously, there are things God does condemn. And it may be our task to advise or to warn, and certainly, to pray. But it will be done as one who shares the same grace and is part of the same family.

What a relief! If God has welcomed us, we don’t need to be critical or dismissive of each other’s views on Christian living. A lot of our critical spirit is simply restlessness—because we’re not trusting in God’s welcome of us. So, let’s live in the gospel, enjoy it, and let its effects flow out to others!

Second, Christ is Lord of the living and the dead.[v] We’re responsible to him before we are responsible to each other.

Christ being our Lord hasn’t come about just because of who he is but because of what he’s done. He died and rose again. That’s why he’s been made Lord over everything.[vi]

So, he’s in charge of the household we belong to. We’re his servants and need to be looking to him for what needs to happen.

There are probably many people we look up to—those who have brought the word of God to us, given us advice or helped us out of trouble. But Jesus Christ is the one to please. He’s the one who can settle our conscience, and our thinking as to what is right and wrong. He’s the one who can help us make adjustments as we experience greater security in his gospel.

And in the end, God has a judgement day arranged. That’s the assessment we need to face. And the person we’ll see on that throne will be Jesus Christ. So, he’s the ‘big person’ to be aware of now. The opinions of angry people, dominant people, kind people, all need to be subject to his presence.

Third, the whole purpose of Christ’s reign and God’s kingdom is establishing righteousness, peace and joy in the Holy Spirit.[vii]

You may remember these three thoughts coming together in chapter 5. We are justified or declared righteous, we have peace with God, and rejoice, even in suffering because the Holy Spirit has poured love into our hearts.

If we have felt the relief and dignity of justification, the confidence of being at peace with God and the joy of flowing love, we know what it means to belong to a kingdom that is safe and sure. Matters of what we eat and when we do things can take second place.

And we’ll be careful not to get in the road of a fellow believer practicing what they believe to be pleasing God. They need to act according to the faith they have—faith by which they are justified. Faith is the important thing, not getting everyone practicing their faith in the same way that we do.

Fourth, Christ didn’t please himself. In fact, he endured a lot of trouble because of us—to put it mildly! So, we need to endure the troublesome aspects of what other people do.[viii]

For example, if we are robust in our confidence before God, that quality is for others just as much as it is for us. We’ve got enough enjoyment of grace to put up with the stumbling faith of others. We should use our faith for their benefit.

Just look at Christ. He’s a walking picture of what God endures from us. All our hatred of God is directed against him, and he feels the pain. But he endures what we are and what we do. And still, he encourages us in what is good. This is perhaps what leads to Paul’s conversion. The ascended Jesus explains that persecuting Christians is fighting against him. He tells Paul that he must be having a hard time![ix] That’s endurance, and that’s encouragement.

So, these are the things God wants us to feel and to express. We Christians are a diverse and unfinished bunch! But God wants us to welcome each other—like he does. Not to indulge useless talk, but to endure each other when necessary. And to encourage each other.

And now, here’s the final word on this gospel of which Paul is so proud.[x]

Christ has fulfilled the promises God made to Israel—particularly about people from all nations being thankful for his mercy. The day of joy and praise and hope has come.

If Jews think they have been left behind by what is happening among Gentiles, they should rather be proud that they have been the launching place for this great work.

The world is not just the dismal place we have made it. It is the scene in which God has let his gospel loose!

If we forget this gospel and try to make a world around ourselves—even around our Christian experience, we shut others out. But if we live in what God has done and is doing—giving us righteousness peace and joy in the Holy Spirit, we will praise God together, rejoice together, and hope for the same future.[xi]

God himself is full of hope. He wants us to share this confidence with him—in our life together, and while we wait for the coming glory.

Paul began this letter telling us why he is a joyous slave of Christ. Now we know why! And he will finish the letter with some personal reflections, plans and greetings. We’ll look at this next time.


[i] Rom. 14:3

[ii] Rom. 14:1-4

[iii] Eph. 1:6

[iv] Rom. 5:9-11

[v] Rom. 14:5-12

[vi] Rom. 14:9 with Phil. 2:8-11

[vii] Rom. 14:13-23

[viii] Rom. 15:1-13

[ix] Acts 26:14

[x] Rom. 1:16

[xi] As in Rom. 5:1-5